Your Immigration Status Should Never Keep You Trapped
If you're being abused by a U.S. citizen or green card holder spouse, parent, or adult child, you're not powerless.
The Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) allows you to petition for a green card on your own, without your abuser's knowledge, permission, or participation. Unlike traditional family-based immigration where the U.S. citizen or permanent resident must sponsor you, VAWA lets you sponsor yourself. You don't need them to cooperate. You don't need to tell them you're applying. You can take control of your future and your immigration status safely and confidentially.
Domestic violence is never your fault, and you deserve safety, dignity, and the freedom to build a life free from abuse.
At L.I.H. Law, we understand that leaving an abusive relationship is one of the hardest things you'll ever do, and worrying about your immigration status can make it feel impossible. That's why VAWA exists—to break the cycle of control that abusers use against immigrant victims.
VAWA self-petitions (filed on Form I-360) allow abused spouses, children, and parents of U.S. citizens or lawful permanent residents to apply for permanent residence independently, without the abuser's involvement. Once approved, you can obtain work authorization, eventually receive a green card, and after three years, apply for U.S. citizenship. The process is completely confidential—USCIS will not contact your abuser or notify them that you've filed.
Immigration lawyer Lesley Irizarry-Hougan has devoted over 20 years exclusively to immigration law, helping survivors of domestic violence escape abusive situations and build new lives in safety. Her entire staff is bilingual and fluent in Spanish, ensuring language is never a barrier to getting help. L.I.H. Law specializes in complex VAWA cases, including survivors with previous immigration violations, those in removal proceedings, cases involving children or elderly parents, and situations where leaving the abuser seems legally or practically impossible.
Despite its name, VAWA protects survivors of all genders—men, women, and LGBTQ+ individuals who have experienced battery or extreme cruelty from a qualifying relative. We serve survivors from all backgrounds, cultures, and countries, and we never judge. Your safety is our priority, and we're here to help you find a way forward.
VAWA Self-Petition Services We Provide
We guide Seattle-area domestic violence survivors through every aspect of the VAWA process, including:
VAWA Self-Petitions (Form I-360)
Independent petitions and green card applications if you’re eligible for abused spouses, children, and parents—no abuser involvement required
Confidential Legal Consultations
Safe, private assessments of your eligibility with no contact to your abuser
Safety Planning and Documentation Strategies
Helping you gather evidence safely without endangering yourself or your children
Proving Battery or Extreme Cruelty
Building strong cases using police reports, medical records, photos, protective orders, witness statements, and psychological evaluations
Cases Without Police Reports
Many survivors never called police—we help prove abuse through other credible evidence
Emotional and Psychological Abuse Cases
VAWA covers extreme mental cruelty, not just physical violence—isolation, threats, control, intimidation all qualify
Good Moral Character Documentation
Establishing your character despite any arrests or issues caused by the abusive relationship
Prima Facie Determinations
Obtaining preliminary approval that makes you eligible for public benefits while your case is pending
Concurrent I-360 and I-485 Filing
If you're married to/child of U.S. citizen, filing both forms together to speed up the process if you’re eligible
Work Authorization Applications (Form I-765)
Obtaining permission to work legally while your green card is pending—critical for financial independence
VAWA for Abused Spouses
Including current spouses, divorced spouses (if divorce related to abuse and filed within 2 years), same-sex spouses, and spouses whose abusers lost or renounced citizenship/status
VAWA for Abused Children
Children under 21 abused by U.S. citizen or LPR parents can self-petition independently
VAWA for Abused Parents
Parents abused by U.S. citizen sons or daughters (21+) can self-petition—note: parents of LPRs do NOT qualify
Derivative Children on VAWA Cases
Including your unmarried children under 21 on your petition so they can get green cards too
VAWA Cases with Prior Immigration Violations
Overcoming unlawful presence, visa overstays, or entry without inspection—VAWA lifts many normal bars to adjustment of status
VAWA in Removal (Deportation) Proceedings
Filing VAWA while in immigration court to stop deportation and adjust status
Waivers of Inadmissibility (Form I-601)
Addressing criminal history, fraud, or other issues that might prevent your green card approval
Safe Mailing Address Arrangements
Ensuring all USCIS correspondence goes to a location your abuser cannot access
Interview Preparation (When Required)
Some VAWA cases now require interviews—we prepare you thoroughly and attend with you
Adjustment of Status (Form I-485)
Obtaining your actual green card after I-360 approval
Connection to Support Services
Referrals to domestic violence shelters, counseling, legal aid, and community resources
Our VAWA Self-Petition Process
Step 1: Confidential Initial Consultation - Safety First
Your safety is our absolute first priority. During your initial consultation, we conduct a comprehensive but sensitive assessment of your situation. We never rush you, we never judge, and we believe you. This consultation is completely confidential—we will never contact your abuser or anyone connected to them without your explicit permission.
We ask about:
Your current safety situation and whether you're still living with the abuser
Your relationship to the abuser (spouse, parent, or adult child)
The abuser's immigration status (U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident)
The types of abuse you've experienced (physical, sexual, emotional, psychological, financial)
Your current immigration status and any prior immigration history
Whether you've called police, obtained protective orders, or sought medical treatment
Where you're currently living and whether you have safe housing
Whether you have children and their safety needs
We assess your VAWA eligibility based on these critical requirements:
Qualifying relationship: You must be (or have been) the spouse, child, or parent of a U.S. citizen or lawful permanent resident
Battery or extreme cruelty: You suffered abuse at the hands of your qualifying relative—this includes physical violence, sexual abuse, psychological abuse, emotional abuse, isolation, threats, coercion, intimidation, or any behavior intended to control or harm you
Resided with the abuser: You lived with the abuser at some point during the relationship (even briefly)
Good moral character: You can demonstrate you're a person of good moral character for the past 3 years (we help you establish this even if you've had arrests or other issues related to the abuse)
Important: You do NOT need to still be in the relationship to qualify for VAWA. If you've left the abuser, divorced, or separated, you can still apply as long as the divorce/separation was connected to the abuse and you file within 2 years of the divorce being finalized.
We provide honest assessments about your case, realistic timelines, and what evidence will be necessary. We are also honest about our assessment as to whether you have a valid VAWA case. If you're eligible, we begin developing a safety-focused strategy for moving forward. If you're not eligible for VAWA, we explore other immigration options that might be available to you, such as U visas for crime victims, waivers of inadmissibility, or asylum for persecution-based cases.
Step 2: Evidence Gathering - Building Your Case Safely
VAWA cases require substantial documentation proving both your qualifying relationship and the abuse you experienced. We help you gather this evidence carefully and safely, always considering your physical safety and emotional wellbeing.
Evidence of Your Relationship to the Abuser:
Marriage certificate (if abused by spouse)
Your birth certificate (if abused by parent)
The abuser's birth certificate (if you're the abused parent)
Proof of the abuser's U.S. citizenship or lawful permanent residence (copy of their passport, naturalization certificate, green card, or birth certificate)
Divorce decree (if applicable—showing divorce was connected to abuse and within 2 years)
Evidence of Battery or Extreme Cruelty:
This is the most critical part of your VAWA petition. USCIS must be convinced that you suffered abuse. The more evidence you have, the stronger your case.
Strong abuse evidence includes:
Police reports: Any time you called 911 or police responded to your home for domestic violence incidents
Protective orders or restraining orders: Court orders requiring the abuser to stay away from you
Medical records: Emergency room visits, doctor's notes documenting injuries, prescriptions for pain medication, treatment for anxiety/depression/PTSD related to the abuse
Photos of injuries: Pictures showing bruises, cuts, black eyes, broken bones, or property damage from violent incidents
Shelter records: Documentation from domestic violence shelters or safe houses where you stayed
Counseling or therapy records: Notes from therapists, psychologists, or counselors you've seen about the abuse
School or work records: Documentation showing absences, performance issues, or notifications about the abuse
Text messages, emails, voicemails: Threatening, controlling, or abusive communications from the abuser
Witness affidavits: Detailed, notarized letters from friends, family members, neighbors, coworkers, religious leaders, or anyone who witnessed the abuse or its effects on you
Your Personal Declaration:
The most important piece of evidence is your own written statement describing the abuse in detail. We work with you to prepare a comprehensive declaration that tells your story clearly and credibly. This declaration should include how you met the abuser, the development of your relationship, when the abuse began, specific incidents of violence or cruelty (with dates, times, and details), how the abuse affected you physically and emotionally, and why you stayed or why you left.
Important: You don't need police reports to prove abuse. Many survivors never called police because they were afraid, didn't speak English, didn't trust law enforcement, or the abuser threatened them. USCIS understands this. You can prove abuse through your personal statement, witness letters, medical records, photos, or any other credible evidence showing what you experienced.
Emotional and Psychological Abuse:
Physical violence is not required for VAWA. Extreme mental cruelty qualifies, including constant criticism and insults, isolation from friends and family, controlling all finances, monitoring your activities, threats to harm you or your children, threats to report you to immigration, destruction of property, intimidation, humiliation, and other behaviors designed to control or harm you psychologically.
For cases based primarily on emotional abuse, we often work with therapists or psychologists who can evaluate you and provide expert opinions about the psychological impact of the abuse.
Evidence of Residing Together:
You must prove you lived with the abuser at some point. This can include joint leases or mortgage documents, utility bills showing both names at the same address, mail addressed to both of you, joint bank account statements, photos of you together at your shared home, or witness statements from people who knew you lived together.
Evidence of Good Moral Character:
VAWA requires demonstrating good moral character for the past 3 years. This typically includes police clearance certificates from every place you've lived, letters from people who know you attesting to your character, proof of tax filing (if you worked), community involvement, or other evidence showing you're a law-abiding person. If you have arrests or criminal history related to the abuse (such as being arrested during domestic violence incidents where police couldn't determine the primary aggressor), we can help explain these circumstances to USCIS.
Our bilingual team guides you on how to obtain documents from government agencies, arranges certified translations of Spanish-language documents, and organizes everything systematically for filing.
Step 3: Form I-360 Preparation and Filing
We meticulously prepare your Form I-360 (Petition for Amerasian, Widow(er), or Special Immigrant), ensuring every answer is accurate, consistent, and supported by evidence. This form requires detailed biographical information about you, information about the abuser (without notifying them), your immigration history, details about your relationship, and information about any children.
Critical feature: Safe mailing address option. Form I-360 includes a special section allowing you to provide a safe mailing address where your abuser cannot access your mail. This can be a friend's address, a shelter address, an attorney's office, or anywhere you feel safe. USCIS will send all correspondence only to this safe address.
Your personal declaration is attached to the I-360 form and serves as the centerpiece of your case. We help you craft a powerful, detailed narrative that clearly establishes the abuse you suffered, explains the impact on your life, and demonstrates why you deserve protection.
Cover letter and legal argument: For complex cases, we prepare detailed cover letters explaining your circumstances to USCIS adjudicators, citing relevant law and policy, and highlighting the strongest evidence in your petition.
Critical fact: There is NO filing fee for VAWA self-petitions. Form I-360 filed under VAWA is completely free—USCIS charges $0. This is intentional, recognizing that abuse victims often have no access to money because abusers control all finances. You can apply for your green card without paying the government anything.
Confidentiality protections: By law, USCIS cannot share any information from your VAWA petition with your abuser or anyone else without your written consent. Your petition is processed confidentially at USCIS's specialized humanitarian processing center.
Concurrent filing option: If you're the spouse, child, or parent of a U.S. citizen (not a green card holder), you may be eligible to file Form I-485 (Adjustment of Status) at the same time as your I-360. This is called "concurrent filing" and can significantly speed up your green card process. We assess whether concurrent filing is right for you based on your specific circumstances.
We file your complete I-360 petition with USCIS, provide you with copies of everything submitted, and ensure you understand what happens next.
Step 4: USCIS Processing - Receipt Notice and Biometrics
After filing, USCIS sends a receipt notice (Form I-797C) to your safe mailing address confirming they received your petition. This notice includes your case number, which you can use to track your case status online through USCIS's website. Keep this receipt notice safe—it's proof you have a pending VAWA petition.
Biometrics appointment: USCIS typically schedules you for fingerprinting (biometrics) within 4-8 weeks of filing. You'll attend this appointment at a local Application Support Center where USCIS will collect your fingerprints, photo, and signature for background checks. This appointment is required and usually takes less than 30 minutes.
Prima facie determination: During the initial review, USCIS may issue a "prima facie determination" if they believe you've established a credible case for VAWA eligibility. This preliminary finding doesn't mean your petition is approved yet, but it makes you eligible for certain public benefits (like TANF, Medicaid, food stamps) in states that offer them to VAWA applicants. We can help you understand what public benefits you might qualify for while your case is pending.
Step 5: USCIS Review and Request for Evidence (If Needed)
After biometrics, your petition enters the standard processing queue at USCIS's HART (Humanitarian, Adjustment, Removal, and Travel Documents) Service Center in Nebraska. As of 2025, 80% of VAWA self-petitions are decided within approximately 41.5 months (about 3.5 years). This is a long wait, but it's the current reality due to backlogs and high case volume.
During this time: USCIS adjudicators carefully review your entire petition, verify the evidence you submitted, conduct background checks, and assess whether you meet all VAWA eligibility requirements. They're looking at the totality of your evidence to determine if you suffered battery or extreme cruelty from a qualifying relative.
Request for Evidence (RFE) or Notice of Intent to Deny (NOID): If USCIS believes additional documentation is needed, they may issue a Request for Evidence asking for specific items. Common RFE requests include additional proof of the abuser's status, more evidence of abuse, clarification about your timeline, or additional good moral character documentation. We respond to RFEs strategically and thoroughly, providing exactly what USCIS needs to approve your case.
Interviews (Starting December 2024): USCIS announced that some VAWA self-petitioners may be selected for interviews. If you're selected, being called for an interview does NOT mean there's a problem with your case—it's just an additional step USCIS is implementing for certain petitions. We prepare you thoroughly for VAWA interviews, and immigration lawyer Lesley can accompany you to provide support and ensure the interview goes smoothly.
While you wait: If you filed I-485 concurrently and it's been approved for processing, you can apply for work authorization (Form I-765) and a travel document (Form I-131). Both are FREE for VAWA applicants. Work authorization arrives while you are waiting for a decision no your case, allowing you to work legally and support yourself financially while waiting for your green card.
Step 6: I-360 Approval - Your Path to a Green Card Opens
If USCIS approves your I-360 petition, you'll receive an approval notice (Form I-797) confirming your status as an approved VAWA self-petitioner. This is a major milestone. Your approval notice proves you've met the eligibility requirements, and you are generally granted deferred action, which can protect you from removal from the U.S. and grants you work authorization.
Important: I-360 approval does NOT give you a green card yet. It's the first step—proving you qualify. The next step is applying for permanent residence through Form I-485 if you’re eligible.
After I-360 approval, what happens next depends on who your abuser is:
If abused by a U.S. citizen spouse, parent, or adult child:
You're considered an "immediate relative" of a U.S. citizen
An immigrant visa is immediately available—no waiting list
You can file Form I-485 (Adjustment of Status) right away if you're in the United States
If you already filed I-485 concurrently with your I-360, it will now move forward for final processing
You'll receive your green card after I-485 approval
If abused by a lawful permanent resident (green card holder) spouse or parent:
You fall under the F2A family preference category
You must wait for a visa number to become available (currently about 2-3 years)
Each month, the State Department publishes the Visa Bulletin showing when visa numbers are current for your priority date
Once your priority date becomes current, you can file I-485 or proceed with consular processing
After filing I-485, you'll receive your green card in approximately 12-24 months
We monitor the Visa Bulletin monthly and notify you when it's time to proceed with your adjustment of status application.
PLEASE NOTE: Not everyone who has an I-360 approval is eligible to apply for their green card. In addition, if your green card application was denied, we can provide a second opinion or your options moving forward.
Step 7: Adjustment of Status (Form I-485) - Obtaining Your Green Card
Form I-485 is your actual application for a green card. If you didn't file it concurrently with your I-360, you file it now after your I-360 is approved and a visa number is available if you’re eligible to apply.
Critical fact: Form I-485 is FREE for VAWA self-petitioners. As of April 1, 2024, USCIS waived the filing fee and biometrics fee for I-485 applications filed by VAWA petitioners. You pay $0 to apply for your green card.
The I-485 application includes:
Form I-485 (Application to Register Permanent Residence or Adjust Status)
Medical examination (Form I-693) completed by a USCIS-approved civil surgeon
Passport-style photos
Updated biographical information
Any additional supporting documents
Work authorization and travel documents (both FREE):
When you file I-485, you can also file Form I-765 (work authorization) and Form I-131 (travel document/advance parole) at no cost. These allow you to work legally and travel outside the U.S. while your green card is pending. Work authorization arrives while you wait for a decision on your I-485.
Important: VAWA self-petitioners can adjust status even if they entered without inspection. Normally, people who entered the U.S. illegally (without inspection by an immigration officer) cannot adjust status in the United States—they must leave for consular processing, which triggers 3 or 10-year unlawful presence bars. However, VAWA lifts this restriction. As a VAWA self-petitioner, you CAN adjust status in the U.S. even if you crossed the border illegally, overstayed a visa, or worked without authorization. This is a critical protection for abuse victims. However, there are some non-waivable factors that may make you ineligible to apply for your green card even if you have an approved I-360 and deferred action. Please consult with an experienced immigration lawyer if your I-485 has been denied or you have a complex immigration history and/or several entries and exits into the U.S.
Adjustment of status interview: USCIS may schedule you for an interview at your local field office (Seattle Field Office for King County residents). During the interview, the officer will verify information in your application, review your documents, and ask questions to ensure you still meet all requirements. We prepare you thoroughly for this interview.
Step 8: Green Card Approval - Permanent Residence and Freedom
Once USCIS approves your I-485 application, you become a lawful permanent resident of the United States. Your green card will arrive in the mail within 2-3 weeks of approval.
As a green card holder, you can:
Live and work anywhere in the United States permanently
Leave and return to the U.S. freely (with some travel limitations)
Receive a social security number without restrictions
Apply for jobs without restrictions
Access educational opportunities and financial aid
Start your own business
Sponsor certain relatives for green cards eventually
Apply for U.S. citizenship after 3 years (instead of the normal 5 years) if you obtained your status through a U.S. citizen spouse
Important: You receive a standard 10-year green card. Unlike marriage-based green cards where marriages under 2 years result in conditional 2-year green cards, VAWA green cards are permanent 10-year cards from the start. You don't need to file I-751 to remove conditions because there are no conditions.
Total timeline from start to finish: Most VAWA applicants should expect approximately 4-5 years from the initial I-360 filing to receiving their green card in hand. This includes about 41.5 months for I-360 processing plus 12-24 months for I-485 processing. If you filed concurrently or if you're married to a U.S. citizen, the timeline may be somewhat shorter.
Step 9: Path to Citizenship and Long-Term Planning
After receiving your green card through VAWA, you can eventually apply for U.S. citizenship through naturalization.
Expedited citizenship timeline: If you received your green card based on abuse by a U.S. citizen spouse and you're still married to them when you apply for citizenship, you can apply after just 3 years as a permanent resident (instead of the standard 5 years). As a VAWA self-petitioner, you don't need to be living with your abuser or be married anymore, provided you meet other requirements like continuous residency, physical presence, and good moral character.
After naturalization, you can:
Sponsor your own relatives for green cards (children, parents, siblings)
Vote in U.S. elections
Obtain a U.S. passport for unrestricted international travel
Access federal jobs requiring citizenship
Never worry about losing your status or being deported
We can help with citizenship applications when you're ready, bringing your immigration journey full circle from survival to citizenship.
Derivative children: If your children were included on your VAWA petition as derivatives, they are also eligible to receive green cards as well. When you naturalize, your children under 18 who are living with you automatically become U.S. citizens through you without having to file their own citizenship applications (under Child Citizenship Act).
Why Choose L.I.H. Law for Your Citizenship Case
Our Specialty
Experience With Complex Immigration Journeys: Family-Based, Family Reunification, VAWA, Waivers
20+ Years Exclusively Practicing Immigration Law
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Attorney Lesley Irizarry-Hougan has devoted her entire legal career to immigration law since graduating from Northern Illinois University School of Law.
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Unlike general practice attorneys who handle immigration cases occasionally, Lesley exclusively focuses on immigration law. This means she understands the nuances of U.S. immigration law, stays current on policy changes, and knows how Seattle's USCIS office operates.
Fully Bilingual Service—Se Habla Español
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Our entire staff is fluent in Spanish, not just the receptionist. From your first call to your oath ceremony, you can communicate in the language you're most comfortable with.
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We translate documents, explain legal concepts in Spanish, and ensure you fully understand every step. This cultural and linguistic competence means we can better serve Seattle's large Latino immigrant community, though we welcome clients from all backgrounds.
Daughter of a Veteran with Deep Community Roots
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As the daughter of a U.S. military veteran, Attorney Lesley Irizarry-Hougan has a profound respect for the meaning of American citizenship and the sacrifices families make to achieve it.
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She understands both the immigrant experience and American values, bringing a unique perspective to every case.
Active Community Involvement
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L.I.H. Law doesn't just practice immigration law—we actively serve Seattle's immigrant community. Attorney Lesley volunteers at
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citizenship clinics sponsored by the Seattle Office of Immigrant and Refugee Affairs, helps immigrants apply for citizenship at Naturalization Day events, provides pro-bono services through Northwest Immigrant Rights Project (NWIRP), and gives free immigration workshops throughout Washington State.
Transparent, Reasonable Fees
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We provide clear, upfront pricing with no hidden costs. Our fees are structured fairly, and we offer payment plans when needed.
Local Knowledge
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Deep Understanding of Seattle USCIS Field Office Procedures
Transparent Process
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Clear Process with Timeline Expectations
Client Service
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Personal Attention Throughout - You're Not Just a File Number
Proven Results
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Frequently Asked Questions
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Yes, absolutely. Despite the name "Violence Against Women Act," VAWA protects survivors of all genders—men, women, transgender individuals, non-binary people, and anyone else who has experienced domestic violence from a qualifying relative.
VAWA explicitly protects:
Male survivors: Men abused by U.S. citizen or LPR wives, husbands, parents, or adult children can file VAWA self-petitions with the exact same rights as female survivors
LGBTQ+ survivors: Same-sex spouses have full VAWA protections since same-sex marriage became legal nationwide in 2015. If you're married to someone of the same gender who abused you, you qualify for VAWA exactly like opposite-sex couples
Transgender survivors: Your gender identity doesn't affect your VAWA eligibility. What matters is the qualifying relationship and the abuse you experienced
Important: Male survivors and LGBTQ+ survivors sometimes face unique challenges—abusers may weaponize gender stereotypes ("no one will believe a man is being abused") or homophobia/transphobia ("I'll out you to immigration if you leave"). USCIS understands these dynamics, and we have experience helping male and LGBTQ+ survivors build strong VAWA cases.
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USCIS Government Fees: $0 total.
There are NO government filing fees for VAWA applications. This is intentional policy recognizing that abuse victims often have no access to money:
Form I-360 (VAWA self-petition): $0
Form I-485 (Adjustment of Status/green card): $0 (waived as of April 1, 2024 for VAWA applicants)
Form I-765 (Work Authorization): $0 when filed with VAWA-based I-485
Form I-131 (Travel Document/Advance Parole): $0 when filed with VAWA-based I-485
Biometrics fee: $0 (waived for VAWA)
Other potential costs:
Medical examination (Form I-693): (varies by doctor)—required only when filing I-485
Document translations: per document fee for certified translations of Spanish-language police reports, medical records, birth certificates, etc.
Psychological evaluation (if needed): $800-$2,500 if your case is based primarily on emotional abuse and you need expert evaluation
Attorney Fees: Our legal fees for VAWA representation vary based on case complexity. During your initial consultation, we provide clear flat fees. We offer flexible payment plans to make our services accessible to survivors who are rebuilding financially.
Bottom line: You can apply for VAWA and get your green card without paying the U.S. government anything. The only required out-of-pocket cost is the medical exam and attorney’s fees (if applicable) when you file for your green card.
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No, you do NOT need police reports or protective orders to qualify for VAWA.
USCIS understands that many domestic violence survivors never called police for very legitimate reasons: fear of the abuser's retaliation, lack of English proficiency, distrust of law enforcement, immigration status concerns, cultural or religious reasons, financial dependence on the abuser, isolation from support systems, or the abuser threatening to harm you or your children if you reported.
VAWA uses an "any credible evidence" standard, meaning USCIS will consider any reliable evidence that demonstrates you suffered abuse. This can include:
Alternative evidence of abuse:
Your personal declaration: A detailed written statement describing the abuse—often the most powerful evidence in your case
Witness affidavits: Notarized letters from friends, family members, neighbors, coworkers, religious leaders, or anyone who witnessed the abuse or its effects on you
Medical records: Doctor visits, emergency room records, prescriptions for injuries or mental health treatment related to the abuse
Mental health records: Therapy notes, psychological evaluations, diagnoses of PTSD, depression, or anxiety resulting from the abuse
Photos: Pictures of injuries, damaged property, or your living conditions
Text messages, emails, voicemails: Threatening or controlling communications from the abuser
School records: Documentation showing children's behavioral changes or school counselor notes about family violence
Work records: Employer notes about absences, performance issues, or visible injuries
Shelter records: Documentation from domestic violence shelters (if you stayed at one)
The key is corroboration: The more pieces of evidence from different sources you have, the stronger your case. One witness letter might not be enough, but 3-4 detailed affidavits from different people who saw different aspects of the abuse creates a credible picture.
Important: If you DO have police reports or protective orders, they're excellent evidence and you should definitely include them. But if you don't, that's okay—we can build a strong VAWA case without them.
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Yes, you can apply for VAWA even after divorce or separation, but there are important timing rules.
If you're divorced:
You can still file a VAWA self-petition as long as you file within 2 years of the date your divorce was finalized
You must prove that the divorce was connected to the abuse—meaning the abuse caused the marriage to end or contributed to its breakdown
You'll need to submit your divorce decree showing the finalization date, plus evidence proving the abuse occurred during the marriage
If you're separated but not yet divorced:
You can file VAWA at any time, even if you've been separated for years
You don't need to be currently living with the abuser—you just need to have lived together at some point during the relationship
Separation doesn't affect your VAWA eligibility as long as you were legally married when the abuse occurred
If your abuser died:
You can still file VAWA within 2 years of the abuser's death if the abuse occurred before they died
If your abuser lost or renounced their citizenship/status:
You can file VAWA within 2 years of when they lost their status, as long as there's a connection between the loss of status and the abuse
Important: The 2-year filing deadline is strict. If it's been more than 2 years since your divorce, you generally cannot file VAWA based on that relationship anymore. This is why it's critical to act quickly if you're recently divorced—don't wait and lose your eligibility.
If you're not sure whether you're still within the 2-year window or whether your divorce qualifies, contact us immediately for a consultation to assess your options.
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No. VAWA petitions are completely confidential by law, and USCIS will not notify your abuser that you filed.
USCIS confidentiality protections:
USCIS will not contact your abuser for any reason
USCIS will not tell your abuser that you filed a petition
USCIS will not share any information from your petition with the abuser
All correspondence is sent only to the "safe mailing address" you provide on Form I-360
Even if the abuser files a Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) request or otherwise tries to obtain information, USCIS cannot disclose VAWA petition details
Your case is processed at USCIS's specialized HART Service Center with additional security protocols for humanitarian cases
Safe mailing address:
Form I-360 includes a special section where you can provide a safe mailing address separate from your physical residence. This can be a friend's address, a shelter address, your attorney's office, or anywhere you feel safe receiving mail. USCIS sends all notices and correspondence only to this address.
What about evidence gathering?
We help you collect evidence safely without alerting your abuser. This might mean obtaining police reports through public records requests, getting medical records sent to a safe address, having witnesses provide affidavits confidentially, or using safe communication methods (like WhatsApp) to coordinate with you.
Important: Your safety comes first. If gathering certain evidence would put you in danger, we discuss alternative ways to prove your case without risking your safety. No piece of evidence is worth your life.
After approval: Even after your VAWA petition is approved and you receive your green card, USCIS does not notify the abuser. They may eventually realize you have work authorization or permanent residence, but USCIS will never be the source of that information.
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"Attorney Lesley Irizarry-Hougan is excellent at her job. She helped me when other lawyers couldn't help me. It's worth the cost of work! Very sincere and clear with your expectations and requirements! Thanks to her I achieved my residency and my citizenship!"
— Manuel Zempoalteca, Google Review (translated from Spanish)